Debit Card Question?
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There's no way you're going to get it back.
Change your PIN before he takes any more money. And, FYI, never give anyone else that number. Bad idea.
Yeah, you will have some problems unless you can prove that it was a loan
Dear Sunshine,
your debit card and pin is for your personal use as your bank would have advised.theres been a fraud but when you accept the terms and conditions it is understood you have undertaken to protect your card and its PIN and use it only by yourself. About the money you lost, i think its gone, cos unlike a credit card when a debit card is used the money is immediately debited from ur account,as of now, i suggest you talk to your bank or a 24 hr help line they may have and request them to hot list or cancel your card altogether, next meet the people at the bank and fill out a form for a new card and PIN for the same account, you could also ask about the money you lost, just in case. But plz get your card blocked right away. All the best.
it will be hard to get back
Sorry to hear that things are not so well, but getting to your question, consider that money gone.
You'll feel much better without having to worry about getting your money back from him. If you need the money, get it another way - job, business, etc.
There's just too much emotions involved to really be effective.
Something very similar happened to me. I had a credit card that I never used. He took it from my wallet - I never even realized it was gone. I always left it in the very back of the wallet, untouched. He had been laid off from his job, so he was home during the day to check the mail. He had maxed the card, then hid the statements under the mattress so I wouldn't find them.
After he and I split up, I was cleaning the bedroom and decided to flip the mattress..there were those credit card statements that I had no idea about. I immediately called the card company, and told them what had happened. Because the charges were over six months old, and I had not disputed the charges, they said there wasn't anything I could do. He knew my PIN numbers to everything, because they were all the same. You think you can trust someone...
Advice: Never share your PIN, check your credit report every year, and always make sure your credit cards and SS card are still in your wallet.
i'm sorry this has happened to u but the money is gone. i had a similiar thing happen to me. with most banks and such, u have a certain time period to dispute transactions made but once that time period has gone by there is nothing that can be done about it.
Consider that to be a gift to him because there was no contract stating otherwise. Please learn from this situation for the future that a couple's finances should be seperate so you have your money, he has his money, and you both share in the paying of bills and reaching mutual goals. Keep that in mind for your next boyfriend and maybe eventually your husband.
You won't be able to get your money back. However, if he has access to your debit card or pin them. Go to the bank and request that your card be hot listed. This way he can not have access to your checking account. Just tell them your X-boyfriend know your debit card and pin number. Be prepared to get chewed out at for giving your X_boyfriend your card and number.
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