Advice on paying someone back??!!?
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Well first of all, if your mother isn't making you pay her back, then that's a relief for the time being, however on the other hand, your boyfriend should be more understanding. If your boyfriend knows the financial situation and burden you are in right now, being that he is your boyfriend he should be more understanding. I realize he is your boyfriend and he needs his money back just like he loaned to you, but think about it he is your boyfriend, your companion, and does he love you? I know love has nothing to do with the fact, maybe you should just explain to him thoroughly the situation, and maybe he might just understand, that you are just starting a new employment and it does take a while to receive your first paycheck. Parents are usually more understanding and caring than others, however your mother does deserve to get her money back as well since it was a loan. My suggestion is to explain to them the situation and pray that they will understand. Good Luck!
You'll probably have to pay in installments even though you want to do it all at once. If you're happy with your bf, that's probably not a big problem, but if you're looking to get out of this relationship, you probably feel you absolutely need to pay him right now. If that's the situation, go back to your mom and see if she can help a bit more. Last thing you want is to have your personal life decided by a temporary financial setback. In future, make your number one priority the setting aside of a few months of living money. Sounds impossible, but figure out what in your life you can give up--internet isp account, or cell phone, or whatever. Nothing is worth being so dependent on a single paycheck that you can't survive without borrowing if you run out of a job. By the way, did you go to the unemployment office?
First off don't stress out about it I know it is hard not to stress out but it is not good for your overall well being and only makes things worse. you might have to go without some luxury's for a while when you buy something ask your self do I really need to spend my money on this.then just put a little bit of money away each paycheck even if it is only $20 it will add up and you will get your bills paid eventually
Your Mom and Boyfriend are not the bank, even if they feel they are sometimes.
Even if you can't pay them back all at once or in big chunks, they will probably understand.
Be honest and give them what you can after bills that can't wait.
If they don't appreciate it now (because they want it now) they will appreciate it down the road. And will loan you more down the road because you did pay it back.
They didn't give you their rent money did they? If they did that needs to be paid back ASAP.
The fact that you worry about it and do what you can will mean loads to them.
The smart thing is not to write it off because they said that you could.
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