Should I take the Job?
Should I take the Job?
My fiancee and I currently live in Banff, Alberta, a nice little resort town, but aftert two years of this we have decided to go home to Ontario to get the wedding planned and spend sometime with our friends and families after our long abscence.
My fiancee sent me a job posting the other day for a postion as a Resort Manager at a Family Nudist Resort about 20 mins. outside the city I grew up in.
The Job offers a decent wage, a condo to live in, and the chance to put Resort manager on my resume three years out of college which is an amazing opportunity. The nudity thing doesn't bother me per se, but how do I tell my parents, and her's for that matter, that I work with a bunch of naked people?
Should I take the Job? They called and offered it to me yesterday.
Answer:
Keywords in your question are "family nudist resort" the term family denotes people of all ages, who don't view nudity as a sexual thing.
I say try it out, if the pay is good. I would not worry about the rest.
go for it. people are to uncomfortable about the body.
If you and your fiancee are fine with it, why not take it. It will look wonderful on a resume!
yes
It's all on you! What are your morals? Don't think about what others will think about you. But think about what you would think of yourself first, then decide from there.
As long as you don't have to be naked (unless you're into that) go for it!
However, you do need to think about the long-term implications of taking a job at this "resort." People are bound to know, or find out, what kind of "resort" it is. Will that have an impact on future jobs?
Good luck telling the parents : ) Don't envy you on that one!
If you want the job take it. Tell your family that part of the appeal of the job is the wardrobe that goes with it.
If your fiancee is basically cool with the idea, she's the one you most need to have pleased and it sounds like she has no problem with it. Your parents and her parents should understand.
By the way, nudist resorts tend to be very straight places with little or no hanky-panky going on. The fact it is a family nudist resort should settle that issue.
It's not like nudist places are a huge orgy or anything. As long as YOU don't have to be naked, then I say go for it. It's good money and it's not like you've never seen anyone naked before. I'd just tell the family that you're a resort manager. If they ask for details, then give it to them, otherwise, you don't owe them an explanation of your job.
Good luck!
The answers post by the user, for information only, BAnswer.com does not guarantee the right.
Other Questions and Answers: